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Love is a Choice….Not a Feeling

My husband and I separated in the fall of 1988, divorced in 1989…and then remarried each other in August of 1990.    This was not then…nor is it now a normal cycle of events and in fact, when I tried to find … Continue reading

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Relationships…How Men and Women Problem-Solve

Mike and I avoided problems for the first seventeen years of our marriage.  On the surface, things looked great.  We rarely yelled at each other and held all of our accumulated anger inside.  Whenever a problem would occur, we would … Continue reading

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A Healthy Relationship Requires Two “Whole” Persons

According to www.marriagestatistics.com, 50% of first marriages, 60-67% of second marriages and 70-73% of third marriages in the United States end in divorce.Those statistics were scary to me in 1989.  My husband Mike and I had just completed a long … Continue reading

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