What this website is all about…This website is all about psychotherapy and will cover topics including individual therapy, relationship therapy and family therapy. Information presented will be geared toward the individual reader seeking answers for a life problem and/or the professional therapist who is looking for helpful information or a concrete tool to use when working with a client. Therapy changes lives and my hope for you…my reader…is that you will learn something here that surprises you….that inspires you…and most of all that gives you a real solution to a real life problem.
Category Archives: Relationships
Life is difficult. Those words—the first sentence in the book The Road Less Traveled by M. Scott Peck—were ground zero for me in 1989 as I began a new journey as a single woman. I was drowning in a puddle … Continue reading
My husband and I separated in the fall of 1988, divorced in 1989…and then remarried each other in August of 1990. This was not then…nor is it now a normal cycle of events and in fact, when I tried to find … Continue reading
One of the first things that Mary told me in 1989…as I began therapy… was that I had to find my truth. I had no idea what she meant at the time, but I did trust and respect her, thus … Continue reading
Mike and I avoided problems for the first seventeen years of our marriage. On the surface, things looked great. We rarely yelled at each other and held all of our accumulated anger inside. Whenever a problem would occur, we would … Continue reading
According to www.marriagestatistics.com, 50% of first marriages, 60-67% of second marriages and 70-73% of third marriages in the United States end in divorce.Those statistics were scary to me in 1989. My husband Mike and I had just completed a long … Continue reading